Wednesday, November 19, 2008

HUMP~DAY by Rebecca

Hey Y'all,
I hope everyone is having a wonderful HUMPDAY!! I was perusing the lovely Laura!!) website when I stumbled upon a lovely write up about the Blended Orgasm. Yeah... it just sounds like something you want to try ASAP right!! What's really cool is the fact that they give you what to do with or without a partner. So without further ado, I give you the

How to Achieve One on Your Very Own
Before you pursue a blended O with your guy, it’s a good idea to learn the ropes on your own so you’re then able to better direct him, explains Lori Buckley, PsyD, a certified sex therapist in Pasadena, California.

The best way to start is by lying on your back comfortably and letting your body de-stress. When you feel relaxed, begin manually stroking your clitoris lightly. As you become more aroused, increase your pressure and speed until you’re close to reaching your peak.
Once you’re near the brink, take your hand off your clitoris and move it to your G-spot. If you’re not sure where yours is, locate it this way: Insert a finger palm-up about an inch or two into your vagina, feeling for a spongy or puckered area along the front wall. You’ll know you’ve found it when a warm, sexy sensation washes over that may even make you feel like you need to pee (because your G is near your bladder, it can trigger the urge to urinate, but don’t worry, this should subside in a few seconds).

As you massage your G and become increasingly excited, resume stimulating your clitoris with your other hand or a vibrator...but don’t take your finger off your G-spot. “While touching both, charge full speed ahead until you reach an explosive, pulsing kind of climax,” says Buckley. If it doesn’t happen the first time, practice, practice, practice.

Getting Your Guy In on the Action
Once you’ve located your G-spot and know how to bring yourself to a blended orgasm, you’re ready to go for it with him. This position should make it easier: Lie on your back on the bed, your feet dangling over the edge, with a few pillows underneath your bottom to raise your pelvis. “It’ll be easier for your man’s penis to hit your G-spot if your vagina is elevated,” says Buckley.

Have your guy stand or kneel (depending on how tall he is and how far off the floor the bed is) as he penetrates you. You two will form an L shape; he shouldn’t lean too far over your body because you’ll soon need room to reach down and touch your clitoris. Once he’s inside you and you feel his penis stroke your G, have him thrust until you feel close to climax...then ask him to stop and remain very still. Let him watch as you softly tease your clitoris with your fingers. “Switch back and forth between touching your clitoris and stopping and having him thrust until you can’t take it anymore and you have to do both moves at the same time. It’ll lead to an incredibly explosive finale,” says Cadell.

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